Did you know that drawing Close to GOD overcomes loneliness?
Have you ever been at a party and felt completely alone? Or at a family banquet and had no one you felt you could talk to outside of superficial chatter?
All of us, at one time or another, have felt the sting of loneliness, whether as a forced shut in because of ill health, or in surroundings where others are literal strangers — or so distant in perspective or viewpoint, that we feel unable to relate to or to confide in them.
Recognising others’ needs
As we draw into the autumn evenings, with an earlier and earlier darkening sky (northern hemisphere at least), can we be especially aware of those who may be all alone? For those who live nearby, is there a way to offer friendship when we spot someone who is otherwise isolated and alone? Shall I not be on the look-out for such people in my neighbourhood, or in fact act toward those who I know are alone, so that I can bless others. It is part of my responsibility as a follower of Jesus?
Recognising our needs
And what if you are the person who is isolated? Sometimes it is impossible to reach out. It is important then, to remember that, always we have Jesus. We that know him are never truly alone. And as we wave to our neighbour across the road, or simply smile at someone passing by, we may start a conversation which can lead anywhere.
Created for Relationship
We all need human contact. We are created for relationship. Drawing close to Jesus is a great comfort we have, but not so for some others.
When Jesus was on the cross, He was surrounded by others; and yet, he was utterly alone. Just as He was alone then, so He understands our needs and wants our fellowship. Time spent with him – in the Word, in prayer, in worship – is time spent in good company. No one likes to be alone all the time. But when our circumstances isolate us, we can remember he never leaves nor forsakes us; drawing near to him assures us that he will draw near to us (James 4:8).
As we pray, thanking GOD for His blessings to us, can we also pray for others, that they may experience the same intimacy with the Creator GOD that we have? And let’s also pray that He may draw us together, even miraculously if necessary. He so delights when we join together. Psalm 133 says, “How good and pleasant it is when brethren dwell together in unity…” It delights us; it also delights the One who made us for relationship.
May you be blessed in Jesus’ company at all times, whether you are by yourself or in the company of others. And may you take the opportunities you have to share that blessing, with the courage the LORD has given you to do it.
Shalom and GOD bless.


















