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For Mothers: Love covers a multitude of sins

(1 Peter 4:8)

Our children are so forgiving of us

As parents we do our best for our children. But sometimes we fail. That’s reality.

But our children need us, love us and so they forgive us, accept us. Love covers a multitude of sins (ours!)

We love our children

Though imperfect, we love our children unconditionally. ‘Love covers a multitude of sins.’ Even though children are only learning right from wrong, the older they become, the more they have learned about right and wrong. They tend to want to please us; they also tend to want their own way. So, they make mistakes as we all do. But our love for them continues; love covers a multitude of sins (theirs!). 

My recent realisation

I’m writing this post because recently, I realised I’ve been too critical of my now 19 year old son, who is kind, honest, hard working and independent.

When he was little, I was so eager to train him in responsibility that I was too quick to look at his shortcomings when he was in disagreement with another child. I was so eager to raise him with good values that I was often too quick to judge, suspicious of his intentions…. even got out of the starting blocks! (even before he did anything naughty)

Self reflection

How could I be suspicious of him when, in my own innocence, I was mistrusted as a child? As an adult, I should have known better….

So grateful

And yet, he knows I love him and he expresses his love for me too…. As well, he is quite capable of expressing his displeasure. I respect that and I like the healthy balance.

In the mix of raising him, I seemed to have managed to reveal my love even amidst my too-hasty correction and criticism.

I’m grateful that love covers a multiple of sins. So grateful!