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For Mothers: Fret not!

What is Worry?

Worry is simply looking ahead at what might go wrong, rather than measuring the moment today.

I say, “Fret not!”

Worry changes nothing. It strives to get us to grab at a false sense of control, to avoid feeling vulnerable.

Worry is pointless and harmful. It robs us of enjoying what is happening now that is good!

Worry not. Fret not.

We are looking in the wrong direction when we worry. 

Look up, look out! Let us not look forward at what might go wrong, as though we have an influence over it. Rather, let us look up at the beauty of the sky, and look out to those we love, and look into our own hearts to pick ourselves up and love on our families.

And as we focus and are grateful for what we have, our perspective changes, worry goes, and we can rest our minds.

Fret not! Let’s prepare for the best outcome and recognise it may not happen but as we live for the best outcome, it is more likely to come to pass.

Enjoy today!

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Examining Biblical Scripture

No more fear

How to beat fear in 3 steps: Most of us are afraid of something aren’t we, but it isn’t an enjoyable way to live.

Ready: Would you like to end fear creeping into your life forever? God’s love has already wiped it all away.

Set: The Bible says ‘fear not’ 365 times… that’s once for every day of the year. Why? Because it’s natural for us to fear. Except now that we are alive in Christ, we no longer have a reason to fear. We are supernatural beings! Fear is beneath us. How then, do we stay on top of fear? It’s through love… for when we experience perfect love there is no room for fear.

The opposite of fear is not courage; the opposite of fear is love. Fear can only get a grip on us when there is a lack of assurance that we are loved. The perfect antidote to fear is God’s love – because God is in charge of the universe and He has promised to bless any who make Him their God (Genesis 12, 17).

Steps to Beating Fear:

1. Acknowledge the Sovereignty of God: There is nothing that escapes God’s gaze or His power. All circumstances flow from his desire to bless His children.

2. Embrace the perfect love of God, who knows you intimately (Psalm 139:14) and will protect, defend, guide and teach you in all things, through the Holy Spirit.

3. Press forward, into God’s purposes. ‘Straining forward and focusing on what lies ahead’ enables us to overcome the temptation to fear.

Go:

Choose to walk in the knowledge that God loves you and is in charge. He knows the beginning from the end. There is nothing to fear.